Sunday, May 24, 2009

Anniversary

We almost put off our anniversary plans because Sue went to the ER yesterday.  She had a bad fall at school on Friday and hit her head, then the next day was dizzy and vomiting with fever and chills.  They treated the nausea and kept her at the hospital overnight.  She's home now and doing fine, and they're still trying to figure out what exactly happened.  

Dale and Jordan were with her for most of the day yesterday.  But they came home in the late afternoon, so we went ahead with our evening plans.  We had dinner with the friends who came over to babysit, then left the kids at home and had dessert out at Anthony's, for the view.  The view was fantastic... the rest was just okay.  After sunset, we went down the street to Golden Gardens, a lovely beach park looking out at the Olympics.  A nice surprise:  there was live classical music playing a ways up the beach, I think a string quartet.  We walked up to see and what should we find when we got closer?  Beds.  About twenty white cast-iron beds, on the beach, each with a fluffy white comforter and pillow.  Some had people resting in them.  It was dark and there were spotlights around, so the effect was very artistic.  And what else?  Bunnies.  Three people in fancy bunny suits, white tailcoats, giant bunny heads with tall ears, doing ballet among the beds and occasionally stopping to gently tuck people in.  Really!  This is what it was!  With the lovely classical music!  We watched for a while and decided what the hey, when do you get to lie in a bed at night on the beach?  So we climbed into one.  No one minded.  And it was really very peaceful and pleasant, lying in a soft bed on the beach quite near the water, with a warm quilt, listening to the music and the gentle lapping of the waves, watching the stars come out.  After a while there were little boats, too.  They glided out bearing star-shaped lanterns, four of them, doing some kind of choreographed thing together.  

After some time, one of the bunnies came over to us and tickled our feet!  Vigorously!  and said "Wake up, wake up, time to wake up, time to wake up!  Happy new moon!  Happy new moon!"  That was as good an ending as we could imagine for this bizarre little dream scene, so we got up, made the bed, and drove home.

I'm sure I could google "golden gardens beds bunnies" and find out what was going on, but what could I possibly find out that would improve the experience?  It was delightfully mysterious.

Allergies

I've got 'em.  I thought I might be spared, moving to a new geographic region and all, but no.  Itchy eyes, runny nose, dozens of sneezes in a row.  It started a couple weeks ago and I only just today realized what's going on.  I hope the Claritin helps.

Monday, May 18, 2009

No birds, no bees!

It happened!  Jordan asked me how you make a baby!  I am so delighted - it came up in a completely casual way, I was prepared, and it went off without a hitch.  They say you should get the basics in before they're five, if you can, because five is when the social inhibitions start to set in.  We're off to a good start.

Dale was out (ain't that the way).  It started with Jordan and I grooving on the house, a favorite topic of ours.

Rachel:  Isn't this such a great house?  I love it.
Jordan:  I love it too!  Let's live here until we are DEAD.
Rachel:  Great, yes, let's live here forever.
Jordan:  No, we can't live here forever because that would be after we are dead.
Rachel:  That's true, we can't live here after we're dead.  But maybe when you grow up, if you have children your children could live here.
Jordan:  Hah!  I can't have any children, Mommy!
Rachel:  I mean when you are grown up.
Jordan:  I'm a boy.  Boys can't have babies.
Rachel:  Well, you're right, but you could be a daddy.  You know it takes a mommy and a daddy to make a baby.
Jordan:  [uproariously] Make a baby?  How do you make a baby?

There it was!  I thought -- This is it!  He asked me point blank!  He seemed to think the whole idea of babymaking was a ridiculous concoction of Mommy's, and probably a joke, but it seems to me that's all the more reason to clarify matters.  I gave what I think is a darned good answer to this question, straightforward and in terms that make sense to a preschooler - I won't post it here because it might get my blog flagged (which is a sad state of affairs but oh well) - if you want to hear what I said you can email me.  Thank goodness for my friend Bekah, who blazed the trail on this one as I always knew she would.  

When I had finished my little explanation, Jordan said, "That is SO SILLY!"  You got that right, kid.  And we went on to whatever else we were doing.

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Ride 'em

Kari and Danny's kids have outgrown the white horsie, and boy is it perfect for Aaron.

Appreciating Mommy

While I was out at the Korean spa with Bekah, Dale led Jordan and Aaron in a conversation about my fine qualities.  He transcribed as best he could.

Jordan:  She gets me more milk and I like it so much.
Aaron:  Mommy nurse.
Dale:  She makes us yummy dinners that we eat together.
Aaron:  Mommy snuggle.
Jordan:  She does chores for us and then she feels happy because she is doing good things for our family.
Dale:  She calls me in the middle of the day to say hello.
Jordan:  She sings us beautiful songs.
Aaron:  Song!  Yeah.
Jordan:  She gives me pepperoni pizza and I get to take it off and eat it.
Aaron:  Take a walk!  Kick a puddle!
Jordan:  And going to the library.

Friday, May 8, 2009

Mother's Day gifts

Aaron and Jordan brought home these amazing Mother's Day gifts from school. Jordan's is a self-portrait, a concept which I happen to know they have been working on for some time. He said, "It's even painted under the picture, Mommy," and pointed out to me that he had made eyelashes, and that the eyes have the dots in them (pupils) but they are covered by the blue.



Aaron made handprints, and chose the colors for the paint, and showed his hands for pictures.



The poem is an excerpt from something by Robert L. Hinshaw, which starts out "In this restless realm can there be any greater demands/Than those entrusted to a mother's affectionate hands?" Well, their teachers are right up there, is what I say. They are amazing for facilitating these works.

Sunday, May 3, 2009

Tomatoes are in

We have been planning on the Seattle Tilth Edible Plant Sale for months, and it was awesome. We got there later than I wanted to and the line was really long, but there was a playground and it was a super friendly line so we stuck it out, and wow, I am so glad we did. What could be the big deal about a plant sale, you may ask? Well let me tell you. The selection was fantastic: heirlooms, near-natives, stuff that's well known in Europe that should be more popular here, all stuff that is known to succeed in Seattle. There was no nursery crap that is only there because it's the marathon-producer hybrid thing they sell all over the country and only looks good today because it's hopped up on fertilizer. These starts here were healthy and strong and normal, and not even root bound. The signage was perfect, telling me exactly what I wanted to know in order to decide if I wanted that in my garden. The staff was amazing: people hovering everywhere eager to help with whatever questions I had. It was so exciting and inspiring, I loved it.

Buying plants means planting plants, and we spent all afternoon yesterday at work in the garden, sometimes in the rain. I didn't take any pictures then, I forgot, but also it was raining and messy. (I took pictures today instead.) Sue was with us and she entertained Jordan - she knows how to garden with preschoolers. We had bought six different tomato plants, herbs, a little lettuce, bok choy, a sweet bell pepper, an early jalapeno, an "eight-ball" zucchini, some great little cucumber, and delicata squash. We also had some special potatoes and strawberries from a friend. This is all added to the stuff I planted a couple weeks ago. We are packed.

I don't have much experience as a lead gardener - I have done more caretaking than initiating (weeding is my favorite), and my instincts for how to set things up to grow well are not very well-educated instincts. I think about the light they will get, but really what's under the ground is at least as important as what's above it. Sue is a master, and she shows me where the soil is only loose two inches down, so the roots only grow two inches down, and the plant kind of peters out after two inches up. She advises me to pull the rhubarb stalks straight out rather than cutting them, that they will grow more. She is aggressive about digging stuff up and replanting it somewhere else - I tend to think more in terms of working around what's already succeeding in a particular place. But half the time I wind up digging stuff up anyway, because halfway through I realize the soil needs deep work, not just weeding. For example, this side yard - I methodically removed all the weeds, and then got into the roots of an old tree that used to be there, and basically pulled up the whole bed and replanted the good stuff. Foxglove, lilies, and something else that was tagged as begonia but that Sue informed me is a bergenia. I never heard of that. Internet research backs her up.


Six tomato plants, all in containers on the deck - that's warmer for them, the dirt is ideal, and they're easier to protect from pests. The cherry tomatoes are Sweet Million and Isis Candy. The regular tomatoes are Sasha's Altai, Grushovka, Chianti Rose, and Black Krim. This is too many tomatoes for us to eat - Bekah and I plan to do some canning. Peppers are iffy in Seattle because our growing season is just not all that long, but we are going for a chocolate bell and an early jalapeno. The boys are playing shovel-guitars on the "stage."


One of our raised beds is falling down; Dale propped it up which will probably hold it until fall. We're planning to replace it with recycled plastic "boards" that Sue likes. The bed contains chard, chard, chard, chives, onions, and sage, none of them close to the edge because it might just collapse.


I dug up out a whole zone that had been totally eaten by two kinds of mint (a spearmint and a peppermint) and a very successful Golden Marjoram. (The Slattons left all the labels in the ground, which is very informative.) I had no idea mint was so invasive; the roots run sideways underground and just choke out everything else. I like to have some mint, but Sue says it's hard to contain. Potting it is wise. I have never had any use for marjoram, but I'll keep a little of that too. There is a huge old rosemary - I should find out how to take care of that, it is ancient and kind of ratty looking.


Lilies and clematis by the back-door steps, which might do better now that they are not choked by mint.


One of the raised beds already has a very happy parsley from last year, which I use all the time, and we planted sage, oregano, and four kinds of basil in containers, surely excessive of us. Sweet Italian, Genovese, Thai, and Sweet Petra (purple). So I should be good for herbs.

I didn't want to do lettuce because it's so vulnerable, I think it just gets eaten (and not by me). I did plant one tray of mache (called "corn salad" in the US, apparently), which is a fun little nutritious tasty salad green. And we have WAY too much chard. I thought I was buying four chard plants and thought well, I'll get eight. Then Sue informed me that each of the plants I had planted was actually five or six plants stuck together and I needed to break them up so that they had room to grow. If this amount of chard succeeds I am going to be challenged to stay on top of it. It freezes well, supposedly. This is good, because we also have cabbage, bok choy, and last year's kale and broccoli coming up. Note for next year: Don't get so jazzed about gardening in March that you fill up your best areas with winter greens.

Tiny mache plants.


Raspberry bed which also has strawberries in it; we hope that works. Apple tree (we think?) in bloom.


It's hard to know what's going to work in the back bed. It doesn't get full sun. There are some crazy successful daisies that are coming up very fast, and forget-me-nots, and now a great multitude of tiny chard plants, along with the cabbage. The peas (under the triangular trellis) are no bigger than when I planted them, which likely means I didn't prepare the soil well. We'll need to fix that.


To the left of the peas, Dale did major cultivation work to make a bed for the potatoes, squash, zucchini, and cucumber. There's a beautiful tulip tree in the neighbor's yard, which meant negotiating with the tree roots.


Rhubarb, which I was so pleased by, but now I know how much better it could be. I'll split it as soon as I figure out where to put the pieces.

Market day

What an awesome morning Jordan and I had at the farmer's market! It was the Ballard one today, because I missed the Saturday one in the U-district for the plant sale (see other post). And it was SPRING. Asparagus! Rhubarb! A million other beginnings of things! Music, dogs, children, neighbors! Samples! It was like a festival. What a treat. I've been going to the farmer's market every week almost since we moved here, and I like doing that, but in the winter it's kind of just shopping. Today, we had fun things like the giant bins of dry beans, which Jordan asked to play with, and the bean guy was so amused by how much Jordan enjoyed it that he gave him a little bag of mixed beans to take home. Jordan could not have been more thrilled if it was a bag of jewels, and spent an hour at the dining room table spooning and sorting them. Another great moment was how long he took to choose between the apple, apricot, and cherry danishes. And better yet was when the cauliflower farmer gave him a raw floret, and he chomped happily away, cherry danish in one hand and raw cauliflower in the other. They were giving away free cauliflower leaves, and I took a big bagful to braise in the slow cooker with green onions from our garden. A couple of vendors down, I gaped at the rhubarb, which is orders of magnitude more magnificent than ours, and talked to the farmer about why ours is so meager. He says we need to dig it up and split it (violently - slice the root ball in quarters with a shovel), and then we will get another harvest in the fall.

Here's what I brought home: radishes, cauliflower (and many extra leaves), black turtle beans, asparagus, and rhubarb.